Last week, I had a job interview for a position as a recreational summer day camp leader for Campbell. My interviewers asked me as a final question, why I want to work with children. And I felt pretty stumped by that question, to be honest. I have always had a connection with children, since I have a lot of experience babysitting young children such as my brother. I told them that having gone through summers at their camps helped me distinguish my stronger social skills and develop friendships that have been so far long-lasting. I said that I wanted to be a part of those memories for numerous children, and that I wanted to be a positive influence on their young lives.
My parents have told me on numerous occasions that I get along well with children. I think I have mentioned this before in one of my earlier entries, but for years my friends and family have been saying that I have motherly traits, and few have even called me "Mother Kayla". Plus my personality reflects one of a mother. I guess I work well with children because I have this very soft side, one that feels the need to protect and nurture. And those gentler qualities of mine apply to almost every friend or family member of mine, or someone I care about deeply. This is why I wouldn't mind caring for children, because I can put myself into the work. I don't have to put on an act and pretend that I care, since I will automatically. A job that anyone can feel comfortable in and have a stable, relaxing environment should be top priority for most people.
However, I can't clearly think of a career that I can see myself managing, if involving children. I definitely do not want to be a doctor of any sorts, and I can't be a babysitter forever! Like I said in my first blog post, motherhood would be considered but I don't really want to raise my own children, unless I adopt.
Speaking of adoption, this isn't really focused on children but adults as well, but perhaps working as an adoption caseworker would be a suitable career for me.
I would need to basically check out the lifestyles and personalities of parents that are looking to permanently adopt children, and continue on to each family's case. This involves several one-on-one sessions with the parents and the child, but it would be wonderful to help piece together a family.
Perhaps I don't want to work with only children, maybe I need to work with families. The concepts of home and family are very important to me, and it breaks my heart that people everywhere come from broken homes and families, or are currently living in those types of situations. I think my social skills with adults and children are very strong, and with years of education developing these abilities, I think I could prove myself worthy of being an adoption case worker.
All I really want to do in life is help people, and if bringing families together is a way of contributing to my society, then by any means I'll do it.
Kayla, I can totally see you working with different families. You're always the first one to help if anyone needs any at all. Going to summer camp for many of your childhood summers really did help you be more social. You're very open to new ideas and willing to collaborate with people you've never had a conversation with before. I hope you get hired for the summer camp job! :)
ReplyDeleteKayla, I think your personality fits this perfectly! You're so open and friendly! Maybe your job could be something related to counseling or psychology for families, since then you could help broken families or something!
ReplyDeleteI love how you say all you really want to do in life is help people. I find that sentiment really admirable, and I know you will live to fulfill it. This specific job, from what I can tell, looks like it would be a good fit for you. You would get to interact with people and be a constantly changing environment. I also know that with your good heart, people would love to work with you. I wish you luck and I hope you get the job as camp leader!
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I'm jealous that you're working at that summer camp! :) I know what you mean not knowing how you work well with kids but just that you do. I know for myself at least, I work well with kids because I practically still am one. And I thhink its not a bad thing to not know some things about why but knowing that it just is.
ReplyDeleteI remember that camp. I attended for a number of years. Both my brother and sister work there as well (though I am unsure if my brother will be returning this year). I can easily see you fitting in and doing quite well working with the kids. Good luck getting the job!
ReplyDeleteA friend of mine also applied for a job at that camp, she managed to get the position and I hope for the best for you, too! You have such an upbeat personality I can see why you enjoy kids so much, it's hard to be sad when you're running around with people half your size! :)
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